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August 2009 
What is your relationship to apology?
Posted on Apr 17th, 2008
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dave
dave
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for April 17, 2008:
Love means never having to say your sorry. ;)
Simple for me really. If someone does something they are sorry for- it just means in that instance they weren't a blended being and lashed out in their moment of disconnection, then decided they want to respond or act from a blended state.
When someone says "I'm sorry"- I honor their decision to change, but I really don't take much personally- and if I do it's because I'm not blended myself ;)
What I like to be able to say to friends and loved ones is, "You aren't responsible for my happiness". And I certainly never take responsibility for theirs. ;)
Simple for me really. If someone does something they are sorry for- it just means in that instance they weren't a blended being and lashed out in their moment of disconnection, then decided they want to respond or act from a blended state.
When someone says "I'm sorry"- I honor their decision to change, but I really don't take much personally- and if I do it's because I'm not blended myself ;)
What I like to be able to say to friends and loved ones is, "You aren't responsible for my happiness". And I certainly never take responsibility for theirs. ;)
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